perhaps you get angry but don't express it? I used to think that I never got angry, but a T pointed out that I actually do occasionally, but I bottle it. Examples...when someone pulls out in front of me when I am driving, I get this little "arg" feeling. When my son leaves his towel on the bathroom floor, again a little breath. Never yelling, never even verbalizing any thing at all. Now I have learned to say "this kind of pisses me off a little". I still never get "angry" in the harsh sense of the word, but I acknowledge the small frustrating things in life that do kind of make me angry.