Ok so here is my story and i would enjoy any help or words of advice from anyone.

Ok im in my final year of schooling and am in love with my best freind for the past two years. The catch is we are both female.

I am not a lesbian, i would say Bi as i have been with males aswell and am also attracted to them. The problem is that one of my other friends recently came out that she was a lesbian, and all of my other friends were ok about it except my best friend who now has decleared she is homophobic.

I have recently gotten very upset about my issue and have done some self harming.

But on the other side i would rather live in this pain than loose her as a friend.

so what would your advice be, tell her and risk loosing her as a friend, or just get it all out in the open??