Dear Mixedup,

In my opinion, your T made a bad move. Not good, considering that as a professional he knows that he has a fiduciary responsibility to his clients. If he needs some work done, he can go hire someone. His responsibility is to provide a safe, therapeutic environment - not to hire his clients to do work for him.

It is no wonder that you feel conflicted. Go with your gut - I think you will find that you feel very empowered. Hugs, Laurie