oh! my anxiety level just went SKY high... another member (disgruntled and about to be um.. separated from us/??) just posted and I gave a short albeit somewhat supportive response.. but the thread they started was pulled... by the time the server returned me to the thread... after my post... whew thought I was really losing it... of course I know, now, and did in short order what was happening... but it doesn't make me feel any better (guess my post had to be removed before the original one?)) then, the wondering and wait to see if admin was going to PM me.. either with a slap on the wrist or an explanation (does it matter when thinking about anxiety???) B R E A T H E and watch the tv game ... whew! head is spinning...