sunrise, I can see how anger could be a cover to anger. A way to advoid the feelings.

do you think that not being angry about anything is causing you any problems in your life? Good question. When you think about it, I think it actually causes you to allow yourself to be hurt. So many people take advantage of me all the time because they know I wont get mad.

I think that I want to advoid all negative feelings.

It is good that you are able to work on the hurt right. But I also wonder if maybe you took a detour. And anger is still there somewhere maybe. Just a thought.