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sorry to hear you are so freaked out by this. you can always print out your first post, or even this whole thread, and take it to your next session in case you don't know what to say. i think you're panicked because you know that T has crossed a line even if he is doing it with the best of intentions. i do think this situation can be easily rectified though. T just needs some clarity about boundaries. supervision might be a good idea for him right now.