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I would totally expect your T to be receptive and empathetic, and for you to express your feelings in a way that isn't blaming, etc. I guess what I was saying (not very well! lol) is that it seems like such progress to be able to tell T these feelings...it it were easy, I would guess you would have done it months ago when he said what he said.

I know what you mean about wanting to shorten the interval between the words/actions and the reaction. I'm better at that now than I used to be, but it was tough to learn, for sure.

to you