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Oct 17, 2010, 07:48 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2003
Location: Coram Deo
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
I am freaking out.....total panic mode....This is NOT how I expected to be feeling.
I just sent T an email saying that I'm feeling really, really, REALLY awful about it...and asked that we just forget that I sent those documents to him. I told him that I'm ok with him using whatever info was useful, but I just want to forget that this ever happened....
ACK....I can't believe how much awfulness is being stirred up by all this.
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 It's all okay. You're still safe. You've done nothing wrong! This is something licensed Ts are trained in avoiding, and it's the T's work to fix this.
This is exactly why these types of relationships are so frowned upon. But yes, you do now both need to fully discuss this, and reestablish the boundary. If you've been seeing this T for a while, and T agrees to not cross or come close to such a boundary again, then you can both move into a good therapeutic relationship again.
I think you may always be afraid he might mislead you in the future, but you're probably more vigilant about it now.
You have to discuss this and make it a therapy session.
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