I realize it is best to brin these things up with the administrators, but i do want to thank those who did bring this up for doing so. Every so often, we all need to think about this, and there are always those who never report, never say any thing, and are too triggered to do anything other than retreat and take a rude or uncosiderate answer to heart. This gives us all a chance to read that not only is it not Ok to respond to a post rudely, but that it is OK to protest to the treatment, soemthing that some of us really need to hear. Once again, thanks. And to the Newbies, HUGGGGSSSSSSSSSS and fear not! We aren't so scary!