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Old Oct 17, 2010, 05:33 PM
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Little rhino, thank you so much for you words, it means a great deal to me. I am beside myself with concern and yes, anger. I realize when the police took custody, they advised me unless there was a waiver signed by him, they didn't have to release any information. Naturally, I am sure they haven't asked him to sign any waivers. I have tried calling the local NAMI chapter but this happened on Friday, I didn't know the full charges until 7pm and at that point it was too late. Everything grinds legally to a halt on Friday and doesn't start up again until Monday. Fortunately, today I was able to locate a Criminal Defense Attorney that probably can get into the medical hospital he is being held at as long as they don't transfer him tonight. I am trying hard to keep a good attitude and stay strong, for I know we are just at the beginning of this battle, on many fronts.
If there ever was an example of why not to put off seeking therapy, this is IT! I knew my son was having trouble, but i just didn't know how bad the trouble was; or i guess I didn't pay attention to how serious it really was for him apparently. I can't dwell on that, but i know it is true, this might have been totally preventable on many levels, if i'd just pushed him into therapy. Anyway thank you so much for the kind words.

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Originally Posted by little*rhino View Post
i'm very sorry for your situation ivy.. many blessings to you sugar

unfortunately, unless you get a power of attourney signed over to you somehow, there aren't any rights for you as the parent. i feel bad saying that but it's the way it is. Once a person is a legal adult, unless they are declared legally incompetent (a court proceding) then the parents or even spouses have no rights or say. WHen my ex husband was in a psych unit for attempting, they wouldn't even confirm he was in there and we were married at the time.

Try checking with your local NAMI chapter - they can direct you to resources
Thanks for this!
little*rhino