I have been seeing my T for 5 years. Here's the weird part-we go to the same church. So, I see him in session, and I see him "socially" at church. I know his wife, his kids, I have eaten meals with him, and have sat in bible study with him.

In some ways, this has helped me see him as a normal human being. But, at the same time, I hold back on some things because talking to him about sex, then seeing him at church on Sunday morning is just weird!

I'm not willing to find a new T, have no desire to do that. And, I am not changing churches. So, for now, we just carry on doing both and sometimes we talk about how weird it can be for me.

Does anybody else have a similar situation, and if so, how do YOU feel about it?