It's a long story. I knew him for about a year before the church thing came into play. We talked about it quite a bit before I joined. It's actually pretty easy to not bring therapy into church-it's much harder to not bring church into therapy.

When something comes up that is weird for me to talk to him about BECAUSE of church, we talk about it quite easily.

But, there are things I avoid at church when I think he might be attending, like weekend retreats. I just think something like that would be too weird.

All in all, we make it work. But, it sometimes feels weird at the same time!