bird, would you mind telling me the name of this website? I would like to make sure to avoid it. I am very dismayed by this. I know that once I was part of a spiritual community website. But the moderator forbid me from helping someone who is DID and was in hospital. I am sure its not the same community. they would never turn away a mentally ill person. but I am very curious what this community is. And i am sorry for them that they have this fear. Fear is the opposite of spiritual balance. Urgggg !!! I am not happy to read this. I am sorry you had to experience it.