I think that all of us are made up of different people. I am not the same with my friends, than I am with my parents, or in church, or alone. I's not talking about being a hypocrit, but we act according to the situation... I don't hide the fact that I'm a smoker, but I won't smoke in church... it's a form of respect sometimes. Our friends bring out a different part of us, it allows us to be silly with people and sometimes they push us to do things we won't normally do... whether it be good or bad. When we alone, we are stuck with the dialogue in our head, making us feel silent and uninvolved with the world. Being different in different situations is normal, but sometimes the descrepency can get too big and we start to question who we really are... that makes it difficult. I think we are all of those people put together. Humans are indeed a complex sepcies and to narrow it down to one personlity trait would be a lie. It is normal to wonder who you are sometimes, that is a journey we take to find ourselves. Unfortunately I cannot tell you if you will ever know the answer to that question for I, too, am still searching for the real me. For now i am who I am. If I am sad, then I am sad and if I am elated and carefree then that is who I am...