welcome to pc!  i don't think it matters but if it gives you moral support then why not? if you decide to go it alone i'd write down what "your close person" to you observed. that might help even if they don't go with you. course the specialist will be the best source to determine what is. keep us posted. 
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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