It's just weird how things work out and he and I have talked about this several times in session. As it ended up, we live in the same small town, ended up at the same church, and I ended up being friends with a gal from a support group I went to for awhile.

Some of us gals went out for pizza after group and started taking about T's. Many of them went to the same clinic and knew of each others T's. I said "I'm sure nobody knows mine", and said his name (which is not a common name). My friend got this WEIRD look on her face and started asking me questions. Where did he grow up? Did he have a brother? etc, etc

Of course, I had no idea where he grew up or if he had a brother. Next time I saw him, I asked. Turns out, he went to high school with my friend from group and he knew her as well, although not well.

Crazy! Other things have happened, and we have decided we are just destined to have this relationship, hard as it may be sometimes.