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Old Oct 18, 2010, 04:28 PM
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PC buddies,

You are all so helpful and knowledgeable. Thank you. I am going to try out this group next week and we'll see where it goes. I am both curious and nervous. I was able to talk it through with T this morning and he acknowledged my fears and validated them and soothed me. I will see him individually each week as well. Soooooo I will let you know how it goes! YIKES

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f you don't go, you may miss out on a potentially helpful healing tool.
Luce, that is exactly why I will go. I want the chance for greater healing.
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Maybe it would be whole separate kind of relationship that adds even more depth and dimension.
Echoes--How astute! This is exactly what T said today during my individual session. He was preparing me for the group and I told him about my fear of sharing him and he said that in group his role would be different and I still would have my individual session.
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and taking their toll on me - and really important. This is a whole new level of healing.
Kiya--yes I am worried about the toll they will take but craving the healing.
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I'm scared I'll feel lost in the crowd.
Tree--EXACTLY!!! But T thinks I will be okay so we'll give it a go. It starts next Monday.
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I had a really hard time
Eileen--I'm sorry group was so hard for you. T told me that if I feel that way I can quit and he won't be upset in any way.
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your focus is more on the other members than the therapist
Farmergirl--that is what T said today, when he told me it would be different in group. He said his role would be less prominent than it is in session.
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Thanks for this!
ECHOES