Thanks ((JD)) for the support. Well I'm extremely upset ATM. My daughter told me that at school today the girl told her "your mom's a liar" several times. This made me very upset and we all went to their house after dinner tonight. I figured if her mom can come to my house, then I can pay them a visit.

I told them what their daughter said and they completely changed the subject and started mud slinging. I never get in fights IRL only the occasional tiff here at PC but I feel I'm generally fair and respectful. They accuse ME of being histrionic - can you believe that?

My husband was involved in a lawsuit that was in the newspapers and they brought this up - which is extremely low and below the belt. I told her that I now realize she didn't come to my house to be a peacemaker - rather she wished I never told the school. They think I was stupid for getting the school involved. I said well why did you initially apologize if your daughter didn't do anything? Right is front of my daughter, they said she has zero credibility. I've never had a confrontation like this my whole life. I'm so mad and so upset. I ended up walking away because we were all talking very loudly. I'm so pissed.