It seems like you just feel a special, open connection to Ani because he's a friend, and maybe you just didn't learn how to really open up to Dane?? I'm not sure because I don't know your background.
Is counseling an option for you guys?
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A good friend once told me: All the things that you are doing for others DO NOT GO IN VAIN, and it may seem that you are not getting a return, but you are, maybe not now, but God never lets any good deed go unrewarded.
"How can I feel abandoned, even when the world surrounds me;
How can I bite the hand that feeds the strangers all around me;
How can I know so many; never really knowing anyone;
If I seem superhuman I have been Misunderstood."
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