I think sometimes it can be more about externalising the struggle we are having inside ourselfs, ie am I enough? When we feel uncertain of our worthiness we look extra hard for external reasurances, but no matter what others say here about the therapy relationship even that won't really feel enOught, but as you progress in your Therapy you will begin to feel your time is enought, you are enought and tHoughts of other clients will fall away once you begin to grow in confidenCe, then you will be able to feel others committement to you, and won't panic about it perhaps becoming watered down because of others, something which we may expereince within ourselfs? An inabilty to share ourselfs to much or to often? Wounds leave us limping and we fear others only have limited capacity to share who they are with us, perhaps?