Welcome

This is very much unsettling for you. I always have the "hmmm" reaction when I read of partners not wanting sexual connection and I do believe that there is always more than one explanation. When he lived at home with his mother did he have a dog? I mean when he was young?

I understand too that if pornography involved then it is a deeper more complex issue than first thought, often men who are addicted to pornography are satisfied by pornography and do not need or do not want any other relationship

Have you offered to leave him? The reason I ask is that you seem very shaken by this situation and your emotions seem to be at the point of confronting your boyfriend with the final straw in the relationship; I could not blame you at all for your feelings

I personally would not hang around hoping for it to be better because if after all this time it is only becoming worse then what are you doing with your life? If you are young and beautiful then go out and find someone else who is young and beautiful, find someone who is happy to share your life and interests, you are vibrant and filled with life, I would urge you to go out and live it

I truly wish you well with this problem, it only meant one thing for me, my ex husband had found another mistress (though at times I felt blessed for that), please decide what you desire and then pursue it, life is too short for it to be unhappy all of the time