I don't know how long you have taken lamictal but if your headaches continue I would re-evaluate with your pdoc that medication. I take lamictal and have not had that side effect but once again each person reacts differently. I also take abilify and have not had any bad side effects from that either. I hope you find the right meds for you that aren't problematic.

My husband too was not very understanding about this illness but after a few very bad instances he has learned that it really exists. He still doesn't understand but believes I need to listen to my pdoc and take my meds. I hope that your husband will find out in a much easier manner than mine did. Feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to. Take care.