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Originally Posted by Belle1979
I have given myself an end date LOL so by then I'll move past everything and more forward.
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i did something similar in a situation that had me totally obsessing for a whole stupid day. i said the next day i wasn't going to indulge in that and it worked and i think i'm past the issue. at least i hope i am and didn't just repress stuff.
i haven't thought about it much though and it's been over a week.
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Sometimes i find that you can learn from past relationships.. I have learnt a few things - not really about me, I am who I am.. but about what I want and what i need (total difference between the two).
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i think learning what you want and need is learning about you.
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I want a friend, companionship and a romance. I had a blast with Louis and wouldn't change anything other than the ending.
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belle, i think you may be romanticizing this relationship in hindsight. i remember that one thread right before he ended it where you sounded like you were fed up and about to dump him. you also weren't gettin' any.
