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Originally Posted by bloom3
i'm sorry austin-t made such boneheaded comments to you. i think you need to be the one to tell him this though
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it's something that keeps coming up. i dont know if i just havent been telling him loudly enough. clearly, it hasnt been effective. im not really sure that telling him again is going to help. but i do think maybe i need to call him on it. i dont know.
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Originally Posted by googley
I'll give him a kick in the pants if you want me to.
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please do
. this made me smile, googles
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Originally Posted by Onward2wards
Sorry to hear it. I say, if a T is really doing little anymore but make you feel put upon, it may be a bad fit and its time to find another one. Good luck with everything.
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thanks, onwards. the problem is that he actually has helped me - more than any other T i've gone to. but his poor opinion of me (which comes up now and again) makes me terribly upset. i need to decide whether i can just put that to one side and keep going back because i DO make changes because of our work. it's difficult, though
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Originally Posted by Kiya
ugh! T said that to me about a year ago also!! >=[ I too was furious for your same reasons!!! It sadly has been one of those topics we return to when one of us is put out. Grrrrrrr. I'll grrrrrr at him too, but i really hope you will tell him what you told us!
Sometimes I really have to wonder where Ts come up with the things they say. For example, last week GT told me that ... well i started titrating off a med because NO ONE will help me get off it OR continue to cover it in the past 9 months. So i started safely, and there was a bad reaction and she actually said to me "So you thought you'd be the doctor?? You thought you'd cause a crisis and let everyone else deal with it??" @_@ REALLY??? Is there some book of "Stupid Things T's Can Say to REALLY Piss Off Clients"????
Maybe we need to send him back to T school. Give him a "civilian ticket" for bad public behavior and send him to T Traffic Violation School. (((((((((Deli!!)))))))))
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i'm speechless about what GT said. my GOSH. how did you respond, kiya? sometimes i can be quite reactive and be assertive, but today i think i just wore my mask of "everything's fine; you can't see that you're hurting me".
lol, i think a civi ticket back to T school is in order, for both GT & austin-t.