yeah, the last time i seen that "big sister" we talked about my mother and i told her about my depression, computer addiction, not going to school, etc. i only went over the basics and past, but things that still related to the present. she listened and was careful with her words, and offered to find me a counselor if i wanted. I have yet to take her up on that offer since I have yet to see her again, but i have considered it a lot.