((((trying)))) you are NOT a loser. you are NOT a failure. and more than all of that, you are NOT alone. finding a new T is REALLY REALLY HARD! you can't look at their name in the phone book or on a web page and see whether they will fit or not. unfortunately, you have to keep trying until you hit one that's a good match.

What did this other say/do that upset you so much? I want to go kick his butt.