I COULD make copies and keep those for myself. If I do that, though, I feel like I'm "enabling" her behavior and her skewed perception of me. I don't think so. She's crossing my boundaries yet again. No more. I gave up "Self" for my kids when they were growing up. It's high time I preserved "Self" now.

You know... I thought about your idea of throwing darts at her pictures... Nope... couldn't even do that. "Once a mother, always a mother." That's my first born and I still love her with all my heart.