Maybe this should go in relationship, but it's the bipolar that started it all... I'm having so much trouble talking to my husband at the moment. He just doesn't get me. I asked him today if he knows anything about bipolar and really understands it. He thinks it's just some days up and some days down. I told him that he should learn more about it and then he will understand me better. His reply was: I don't think it will help me understand you...
What do i do? Is he right? So many times have I explained to him very calmly that I need him to be more concerned, but it feels like i'm just a piece of furniture. Some times I feel like I should run away for self preservation, but the only thing that will accomplish is me losing the only man I ever loved and ever want to love. It hurts me so much to love him. We are seeing a counselor, but they both think if they can "fix" me that everything will be better. It doesn't get any better, no matter how hard I talk, nag, fight, beg etc. I tell him what I want and he forgets the next day.