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Originally Posted by Melbadaze
There was something soothing about the sentence "I still have to go even knowing that", I can't explain it, its like I was afraid of my own demands and she showed me that my demands aren't scary and they are ok..
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Very good insight! In dysfunctional families our parents are so darn fragile and wounded that normal childhood needs just overwhelm them and they cannot handle them at all. It was nice that you saw that your normal needs could be met without hurting anyone.........
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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