Kitty... am trying to get AJ to find someone to rent the basement, so I can move. Odd thing about that is AJ said he did not want me to leave, that somehow with me here there is "balance". When I first came here, he did not want me here, now he doesn't want me to leave.. shrugs shoulders... If we can rent the basement, furnished, it would be better for everyone for me to leave, "I think"...

I don't understand AJ's thinking. I don't think he is "nuts" but then when he calls me nuts, I tell him to be careful because "nuts" could be in his genes... and he hushes up...

He is looking for work and getting responses on his resume. I just don't know how he will get to work without a car or license.

Think I do worry way too much. I would be much more "calmer" if he'd get a job and be more responsible....I just don't understand him...Wish he'd pay that fine and get his license and car fixed...I need to learn to not let things "bother" me...