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Old Oct 21, 2010, 02:27 AM
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Originally Posted by notablackbarbie View Post
What am i, besides a bad girl that got beaten a lot, a bad girl that can't make the fighting stop, and a bad girl that makes everything worse around her
I'm really sorry that you had to suffer as a child . It wasn't right and you certainly deserved better.

I'm also sorry that you received the message that you are bad. This is normal, though, to "hear" this message while you are being abused.

They were wrong, however. You said on another thread that your parent was mentally ill. What they did to you was wrong. You were not bad and this is not why he or she beat you. He or she was sick and this is why they needed someone to beat. No child deserves to be beat.

I hope that you are discussing this with your therapist? Please continue to keep us posted.
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