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Old Oct 21, 2010, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted by LittleForgetMeNot View Post
I HATE our roommate. Hate him. I just do. Everytime he walks past I get that anger irritated feeling, everytime he does something I hate him, everytime I hear him it's the same. Yet I've known him since I was born and my Dad has known him since before I was born, so that's like 18 - 15 years practically.

But I hate him.

He talks to himself all the time if he thinks no one is around and it's weird.. like it's not just explaining to yourself what you're gonna do that day to organize yourself, he does it and like trash talks people or something and he swears like CONSTANTLY when he does it and i know because my walls are paper thin and I can pick up on it. he even does it in the shower >_>

He never minds his own business. He's always getting into what my brother is doing like he's the second Dad. It's so annoying, though not as bad as before where he would literally put his hands ON my brother and push him around, and lock him in his room and hold the door shut (yes he has done this before and I have punched him for doing so). This morning I woke up at 7: 30am cause this guy was knocking on my brother's door to wake him up and tell him he had to go to school. I had to go there and tell him that my brother is SICK and my DAD said he was staying home today, and that he should just mind his own business because it has no affect on him what my brother does, it's my job, not his. But now thanks to him my sick little brother is NOT sleeping, and sitting on the computer by the window you can't close.

I could go on and on about this guy, I hate him so much, it's like not even funny. He's been here about 5 years or so, he's helping to pay rent and the car insurance, and that's IT. But he acts like he's part of our family. My Dad hates him too, the guy is a little off.. he plays computer games all day, and gets excessively angry over the littlest things.. watches my dad constantly..

He's 43, he's creepy, I hate him, but he's not leaving anytime soon. I hate feeling the anger and irritation every time I see him, i dont know how to deal with his.. existence anymore.
Hey little one

Anger is normal and natural...and especially natural for a teenager

I don't know you whole living situation.. you never mention your Mum? So assume you live with you dad and brother.. i could be wrong. You seem to take on the motherly duties with you brother. Thats great but remember to save some time for you to be you too.

Is the guy that is living with you all renting a room? I suppose that financially it helps out so there is not much that can be done. Money is money... everyone needs it.

Have you talked with your dad about setting boundaries for this guy? Especially when it comes to 'parenting' - he shouldn't really be involved imo.

I do hope that the anger passes... punch and kick a pillow... scream when you are in the shower... go for a walk and vent your frustrations.

You are a great person x
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