yesterday when I saw T I brought up the eye contact thing again. Do you remember me asking you about this a couple of wks ago, T? She sure did.
I could not look at her at all as I said, well on that day when I asked you about it, it was impossible for me to look you in the eye but I managed to bring it up, and to get my question out about maybe you and I could try that some time. And then I got up and walked over to that corner of the room and stood there.
She said, what? I don't remember you getting up.
Well, I didn't really. But I very clearly remember doing it.
she didn't say a word.

I told her, it may be a while before we can try this. I'll lhave to let you know. And she said some very gentle and supportive things, but I cannot remember even one of them.