If you know he won't seek therapy (aka, does not want to get better), then leave. Don't wait for the next time. Do you know how many women have lost their lives by giving 'one more chance'?
GO. It's not worth risking your life over. We are worried about you and want you to be SAFE. Please be safe.
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wife. mom. swimmer. writer.
trying to live life in spite of depression, dissociation, and PTSD.
member of a club that no one wants to join...