Jexa
If you went to see a therapist and said, my parents were no problem to me and my life is fine, would you expect her to wonder whether you were in the wrong office and should be visiting the travel office next door?

People experience others in a certain way, it may be that they were too young to understand the whole story or maybe not. Please give yourself time to find out which it is before you judge yourself. I am betting that the T is not judging you. She is learning to see through your eyes yes? And if that's how it looks to you, she has to know it. Please go easy on yourself.