Generally I like to speak to a variety of people, meet new members and go into ready made rooms.
However as time has gone on I've found myself feeling unsafe due to members drama, rudeness and just generally feeling I couldn't rely on people I don't know and trust. So depending on my mood and who's around I go into both types of room, I feel they both have their place.
Something I have noticed more recently is to do with rude comments and not being accepting of other people's views. I have highlighted this to mods, as I find that some members can be highly offensive at times. However because they have not broken a rule it's allowed to carry on and upset other people if they happen to get on the wrong side of people who do this. I don't know the answer to this, but it's making me very concious of who I can talk to now.
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