Huggs back lonegale...I agree with yout that it is time to rewrite the book... AJ just came downstairs and I asked him to help me move the boxes in the sun room to the garage and he said he has been "thinking about doing that too". So I said how about helping me today.. lol.... His defenses shot to the roof.. lol He says why to you keep pushing and pushing. I answer because I like to try to get "things done".. So the arguement beings and he struts off.. lol......

He spouts he does not like being "told" what to do. As I was only asking for his help.......But then I spouted, the sofa was sitting in the kitchen for six months and you did not move it to the shed... He said it is gone now, isn't it. I said "yes", but your dad took care of it.. He rants and goes back upstairs.

Mama is very tired as is his papa...Is time to make changes for our lives...And let AJ make his own way... Whatever that "way" might be......

Hardest job in the world, being a parent. I've let go, but looks like I need to let go more.....