(((((((((lynn)))))))))
Sure have heard the expression too many chiefs and not enough indians.. I pretty much in most ways wanted AJ to be the chief because I wanted him to be "responsible" for this/his house. And at times I was the squawking indian, trying to open his eyes that he was making poor choices. Shouting, you are the chief and you aren't doing your job....

You hit the nail on the head when you say AJ is a tad spoiled.. He isn't just a tad spoiled, he is totally spoiled and a bit self-centered. And it "IS" time for him to fend for himself. And I agree, he needs to learn he has to work to "survive"...That time has come... We will see what he does by January.

OO I knew what you meant when you typed can instead of can't...

Thanks Lynn... you are always helpful and wise....