Miss C, I dunno what to day, I think I'd be feeling much the same as you now regarding group therapy and having to see with my own eyes my T interacting with others. On one hand I could say, oh what a wonderful chance to work through those old issues, and on the other hand I want to say, don't do it! remain one on one with T and shoot him for not seeing how important and unique the relationship between just you 2 is. Oh I don't think this post has been of much help, just I can feel your distress or more my distress if I were in your position now.

Take care!