I had an experence of this recently. I sort of msn'ed a friend, in the hope I could talk to them, open up a bit, and try to feel a bit better about myself. However they just gave me the "get over it" kinda attitude.
We ended up having a small fight. I know they care, and are just trying to give some tough love, but geez... wasn't what I needed. What really bugged me is, I've helped them so much over the years I've known them with their problems, and I've never turned around and said, sorry can't help you, your all by yourself. It sucked.
So, I think I can empathize with you a bit on this. All I can say advise wise, as one person to another, don't give up on sharing your feelings. If theres people or places you can turn to, and you feel comfortable, then its worth talking. Your a person too, and bottling up feelings, can be so bad for you sometimes. At least thats what my experences tell me.(hope that was at least a bit helpful)
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