Dear Lablover,

I have never been one to say "why me?" I have always said, "why not me?" I am simply one of the masses. Why shouldn't I have bad luck once in a while? As long as I am the best ME I can be, that's all I can ask. In retrospect, I've had my share of bad things but many, many more good things by simply being who I am and taking the bad with the good. Life cycles (verb). It will for you, too.