LOL...I know God "created" sex, but it's not often fellow churchgoers know your sexual past and present.

I totally trust him to not talk to others about it, but it's weird. My Pastor actually knows he is my therapist (long story) and called him one time because he was concerned about me. My T told me first thing at my next appointment, and even though neither mentioned my name, they both knew who they were talking about.

Honestly, at this point, I am considering changing churches. I think in the long run it would be better for everybody involved. I am on church council until January, and then I am going to seriously think about what I want to do.