i am so sorry u r going through this!!! I think finding a t would be very good for you to have ur own person to talk to and express all this. Ob and Docs are fine but at t u would have 50 minutes to youreslef to figure things out. Even if he isn't doing anything it sounds like an emotional affair... u with the baby.. u need support especially after having a baby. i wish u strength and send u hugs during this hard time.