(((Pachy))) I am sure that is a part of the reason some T's do what they do. Perhaps even my own. But that can only carry so far - and it is often transparent.

Jazzy, ask your T. I asked mine today! He told me he saw me because he cared. And he knew I needed him. You know what, I believe him. And that is me allowing myself to believe that I am worthy enough for someone to love and care about in a healthy way. And it is big. So yes, ask your T and allow yourself to recieve the gift of human kindness.