if something nearly happened to you when you were a teen but it didnt. is that the same as it did happened. if someone was demanding and yelling that you do it now. and you were upset and saying no but only because you could see the police car out the window and knew they were coming in. otherwise you never would have said no and it would have been different. and the person was not only yelling demands at you but also saying things about what happened to you before. they knew about things and never did anything to stop it and was now saying them to you as if because of what you did before you should do this now. and it was just too much hereing they knew and making these demands and expecting you to do it and thinking it was really going to happen. the police were taking too long. would it be nothing cause in reality nothing actually happened.