!TRIGGER! (Forgot to put the icon, sorry!)










I lost a son in 2002 in a very unnatural way. My fiance at the time saw fit to terminate the pregnancy of 5 months on her own, without the use of a doctor. She did this without my knowledge. I am not a supporter of abortion, and I am certainly not a supporter of murder.

I have been told by my therapist to grieve, that not grieving is a big part of my problem. I don't know how to grieve properly, and I feel it's wrong to grieve and move on knowing that his life was taken and I didn't do anything about it. Surprisingly, my T wasn't able to give me any solid advice.

What do you do to grieve the loss of a loved one after 8 years?