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Old Oct 23, 2010, 05:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Sannah View Post
Except that being a good therapist just like being a good parent means that sometimes your client (and child) get upset with you. This takes all the fun out of it if you are doing it just to be loved...
Sometimes, I think, some people are doing it not for the fun, but out of their own unsatisfied needs.

I know, you do not want to hear me any more about wounded therapists. I guess I had one, and did not know that such things existed, and was almost destroyed. It still affects me.

I think this man's colleagues basically defended him (not me), not wanting to admit that such a thing was possible, not wanting to deal with it. Such things do happen. Not all in "authority" are secure enough to know how to deal with difficulties of this kind, since that is not a skill much practiced in this society. That's my take on it, anyway.
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Last edited by pachyderm; Oct 23, 2010 at 05:38 AM.
Thanks for this!
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