dear Playa,, you might try a search for the nearest Independent Living Center.. they are a great resource for people with disabilities of all kinds,,, and are free and even able to do home visits, in most cases, if that's needed. they are a federally mandated program to help people with disabilities to access supports and services needed to help them remain living in the community. best wishes to your friend, she's fortunate to have a friend like you. Gus