thanks everyone we havent been able to get online for a few days and the end of the month is coming and so things all aroound are intensifying by the minute it seems we arent even functioning in full capacity and we wanted to thank whoever it was that said theyre glad we arent some syrupy selfless martyr becauase thats not something we could ever be we want to thank everyone who replied it helps ease the pain a little thanks a lot ♥