Or being thought too perfect to have any problems or needs.

My looks were rectified to the extent of my teeth being pushed back and with a high verbal and arithmetical IQ in spite of being backward in other ways, I have been ridiculed in some quarters for having difficulties.

(Fortunately, now that I am middle-aged, I look more ordinary )

I call it The Pedestal !!!!! (it exists in others' minds)

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